Kevin Riley Oct 13, 2025

Great Uncle ,Austin ,Texas

Dear Erin, Paul, and Abby, I'm very sorry for your loss. Ben was such a good person. He will truly be missed. My prayers are with you. Take care. Much love, Uncle Kevin

Kurt and Julee Goeser Oct 14, 2025

Family Friends ,Lawrence

We are heart broken for Paul, Erin and the entire family. We will always cherish our memories with Ben and our girls in the early travel opportunities. Prayers are lifted for the family to find peace and comfort in the blessing Ben was to all of us.

Don & Cindy Aiken Oct 14, 2025

neighbor ,Shawnee ,Kansas

We moved here eight years ago and Ben mowed our lawn. Clearly he was a hard-working young man who always had a welcoming smile and wave for all who drove past. He was an intrinsic part of this neighborhood and will be sorely missed. Our prayers and deepest condolences go out to his family and friends as they manage through this tremendous loss.

Cindy Stuck Oct 14, 2025

Friend ,Jacksonville ,Florida

I’m so very sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences to you. Praying for you all during this very difficult time. Much love to you Erin. Cindy Stuck

Lisa Pieper Oct 14, 2025

Friend ,Shawnee ,Kansas

Erin, Paul and Abby, I just have no words. My heart is broken for you all and for the world that Ben leaves a big hole in. I’m so sad and sorry I can’t be there to honor Ben. I will be praying for and with you. God bless you and Ben. He is always with us (the Lord and Ben).

Susan Weber Oct 14, 2025

Friend ,Shawnee ,Kansas

So very sorry for your loss. Erin and Paul and family will be in my prayers.

Gina Conaway Oct 14, 2025

There are no words to express how sorry I am. I just pray that Jesus wraps his arms around you all. Again, I am so very sorry.

Nick and Angie Muder Oct 14, 2025

Family Friend ,Bonner Springs ,Kansas

Erin and Paul, Our hearts break for you. We hope you feel surrounded by love and comfort in the days ahead, and that Ben's light continues to shine through the memories you hold close. With deepest sympathy, Nick and Angie

Lana McDonald Oct 14, 2025

Neighbor ,SHAWNEE ,Kansas

Erin, Paul and family, words don’t adequately express how my heart aches for you. Ben was such a treasure for me, always so thoughtful and helpful! I appreciated when he would text me to let me know the coyotes were on the prowl and to keep my pups inside. He didn’t have to do that, but that was Ben! He was such an incredible blessing. May God sustain you with the comfort of His promises throughout this journey.

Steve & Tandy Croy Oct 14, 2025

We are so sorry for your loss. Words cannot ease the pain, but please know you're not alone. May memories of Ben be a light in this dark time. Wishing you strength, peace and comfort.

Dot Ruy Oct 14, 2025

Friend ,Kansas City ,Kansas

So very sorry. I can’t imagine what this loss means to all of you. You are in our prayers and thoughts.

Jim Allen Oct 14, 2025

Friend ,Shawnee ,Kansas

Erin & Paul We are so sorry for your loss. Our hearts ache for you. May he rest in peace. Jim & Julie Allen

mike & dawn Oct 14, 2025

friends ,Bonner Springs ,Kansas

My heart breaks for you guys im so sorry for your loss

Keith Berning Oct 14, 2025

Friend ,Edwardsville ,Kansas

Most kind, humble, good hearted soul we will ever know. Was a bright, shining light in our son’s life and so many others and will always be. Many prayers for Paul, Erin and Abby.

Michael Consiglio Oct 14, 2025

High School Teacher ,Olathe ,Kansas

The Barrett family is in my thoughts and prayers. I was fortunate to have the opportunity to teach Ben when he was in high school. I am pretty sure that he took every single business class that we offered. He was an amazing young man and I am so very sorry for your loss.

Julianne Howshar-Schultz Oct 14, 2025

Childhood friend ,Fort Collins ,Colorado

Dear Erin, Paul and family, My mom just recently saw you and your mother and relayed how fun it was to catch up! I’m so sorry to hear about your loss. May God hold you in his hands and may the memories of your son give you peace. You are in our hearts and prayers! Julianne (Podrebarac) and Steve

Robin Riley Oct 14, 2025

Great Aunt ,Henrico ,Virginia

My beloved family, I am so sorry to hear of Ben's passing and am heartbroken for you. Ben was an amazing young man and will be missed by everyone whose lives he touched. We will cherish his memory forever. My prayers are with you always. All my love, Aunt Robin

Jodi Davis-Grace Oct 14, 2025

Friend ,Saint Joseph ,Missouri

My dear friend Erin and the Barrett Family, may God the Father wrap his arms around all of you in this most difficult time. I pray for peace of hearts and minds in the days to come. My condolences to you all in this unimaginable loss. My heart goes out to your entire family.

Janelle Jackman Oct 14, 2025

Erin, Paul, Abby and Anthony....please know we love you all very much. We will keep you in our prayers and hearts. We are here to help in anyway.....we are so very sorry for your loss...God Bless Ben....love Janelle, Madison & Mekaela.

Cindy & Scott Oct 14, 2025

Erin & Paul We are so sorry for your loss. What an incredible young man. May he rest in peace. Scott & Cindy Lynn

Angie Shinn Connley Oct 14, 2025

Dear Erin and Paul, Abigail, and Carol, My heart aches for you. I wish I knew comforting words, but I don’t, and I know that none exist that could lessen your pain. You are in my heart. Angie Shinn Connley

Bob Miller Oct 14, 2025

Cousin ,Prairie village ,Kansas

Erin , Paul and Abby, we are so so sorry to hear about this. Our hearts go out to you all, God Bless Ben

Chris and Gina McCord Oct 14, 2025

Our deepest sympathy for the loss of your son. There are no words that can ease such sorrow, but we hope you can find strength in the love and support that surrounds you.

Mary Gonzales Oct 14, 2025

friend ,Kansas City ,Kansas

I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my heart and my prayers.

Denys Ashby Oct 14, 2025

Friend ,Kansas City

Paul/Erin, No words can express how sorry I am for your loss. Our prayers are with you both.

Lowell and Kae Hardesty Oct 14, 2025

Friends ,Nokomis ,Kansas

So very sorry to hear of Ben’s passing. Our prayers and Love.

Lisa Lugar Oct 14, 2025

Oh Erin and Paul and Family! Bill and I are so sorry for the loss of your wonderful son Ben. Our sincerest thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Cindy Booth Oct 14, 2025

Friend ,Lenexa ,Kansas

Erin and Paul am so sorry for your loss. Ben sounds like an amazing young man. Prayers for your family.

Tomas Zamora Oct 14, 2025

Friend ,Bonner Spgs ,Kansas

My condolences and prayers for you both, Paul and Erin, and for your family and friends!

Carmen and Arthur Conejo Oct 14, 2025

Friend of the family ,Kansas City ,Kansas

Our hearts go out to all your family. Prayers of strength and comfort are being said for all of you. Hugs

Rochelle Tramp Oct 14, 2025

Friend ,Lawrence ,Kansas

Erin, Paul and Family, Words cannot express how tragic your loss is. Just know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. Ben sounds like an incredible young man who gave a lot to others in need. May God hold you in his arms and give you comfort.

Brandon Allen / Jet Midwest Technik Family Oct 14, 2025

Work associate ,Kansas City ,Missouri

Ben was an amazing person and worker. He was truly a good spirit here in the shop. Always brought a good attitude with a smile and always willing to do what it took to get the job done. Our most heartfelt condolences to you and your family from Jet Midwest Technik as you celebrate the life of your loved one. May your memories bring you comfort during this difficult time.

Tara Eubanks Oct 14, 2025

Friend ,Overland Park ,Kansas

Erin - I’m so very heartbroken for you and your dear family . Reading his obituary sounds like he followed in mom’s footsteps. Bigs hugs to you.

Kimberly Kolenda Harrison Oct 14, 2025

Family friend ,Tonganoxie ,Kansas

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family Erin and Paul. May the strength of our Lord be with you and your family through this difficult time

Dave & Cathy Goodman Oct 14, 2025

Friend ,Lenexa ,Kansas

We are praying for your family. May God wrap his loving arms around you and show you his full love. We are so very sorry for your loss.

Linda Davila Oct 14, 2025

Family friend ,Shawnee, ,Kansas

May God hold the entire family in His arms at this difficult time. My prayers are for all who are grieving. Remember to turn to Him when times are the toughest.

Cathy Fithian Oct 14, 2025

Erin’s middle school teacher ,Kansas City ,Kansas

There are no words that could possibly assuage the tremendous grief you must feel at the loss of your beautiful son. You’re in my heart and in my prayers.

kim belfield Oct 14, 2025

Paul, Erin and Abby - may your faith, memories, family and friends help you through this very difficult time. Ben was a wonderful young man🙏🏻

Jonathan Fewins Oct 14, 2025

Family Friend ,SHAWNEE ,Kansas

Dear Paul, Erin, and family, My twin boys and I got to know Ben as a scout and he was always such a good role model for my boys in that program. More recently he was so helpful doing pickups and deliveries for foster care with me and some of the other volunteers. I remember a recent delivery in which he was so caring when he was setting up a crib for some twin babies at a tiny little house, patiently answering the questions of their four year old sister. He will be missed, and my family will be praying for you.

Judie Laws Oct 14, 2025

I’m so very sorry Erin. Paul, and family. I cannot begin to comprehend your loss. Ben sounds like someone I would have loved to have known and been happy just being around. May God Bless you and may Perpetual Light shine upon your son Ben. Hugs my dear friends and prayers. Love you, Judie

Cheryl loftiss Oct 14, 2025

Friend of family ,Kansas city ,Kansas

Dear Carol and Erin, I am so sorry to hear about the passing of Benjamin. I am heartbroken. I will not be able to attend his funeral as I will be working. But I am sending you hugs and praying for the entire family. I think of you and the girls often. I love you.

Mary Ann Surber Oct 14, 2025

Friend ,Kansas City ,Missouri

Dearest Erin, Paul and family, We are so very sorry to hear of Ben’s passing. Praying for strength and comfort for all of you as you navigate through this tragic loss. Sending love and hugs your way. Mary Ann & Neil

Pucka Oct 14, 2025

Neighbor

My heart breaks so deeply for all of you. Hoping you can find some peace in this horrible part of your lives. Much love and prayers for you and sweet love and memories for Ben.

Cheryl and Michael Harrison Oct 14, 2025

Friend ,Overland Park ,Kansas

Erin and Paul our hearts break for you and your family. Such an unimaginable loss can only be comforted by the peace of God that surpasses all understanding. We empathize with your pain as we lost our son Jason five years ago and we miss him every day. What does bring peace and comfort to our hearts is knowing that he’s with Jesus in Heaven and rejoicing with all the angels. May knowing this bring you comfort and peace as well. Our deepest condolences to you and your family.

Pat and Jim O’Hagan Oct 14, 2025

Froend ,Overland Park ,Kansas

Erin, our hearts are broken for you. And we are praying for your peace and understanding and may the beautiful memories of your precious son sustain you and the family until you are together again. Hugs Pat and Jim O’Hagan

Bridget Wilson Oct 14, 2025

Friend of Erin ,Emporia ,Kansas

Erin, I am heartbroken to hear of your loss. You will be in my prayers for peace during this difficult time. Love and hugs to you all. Bridget (Connor) Wilson.

Mitzi & Lonny Ryburn Oct 14, 2025

Erin, Paul and Family, we are so sorry to hear of your loss. We cannot imagine what you are going through. You and your family are in our prayers. We are here if you need us. Mitzi & Lonny

Britt Muñoz Jet Midwest Technik Oct 14, 2025

Friend and Co-worker ,North Kansas City ,Missouri

Ben was such a great guy. He was one heck of mechanic and an awesome guy to talk with. I loved how he was always looking to learn and grow from what projects we all worked on together. He always had the biggest smile and lit the room up with his jokes. My condolences to you all, he’s going to be so missed.

Larry & Carol Courtney Oct 14, 2025

Friend ,Basehor ,Kansas

We are so sorry to read this. Please accept our sincere sympathy. We experienced the loss of our son, Gary, so understand what you are going through. We’re broken hearted for you. Thankful that our sons were Christians plus we have lots of good memories over the years. Praying for you.

Kathleen McInnis Oct 14, 2025

Friend ,Shawnee ,Kansas

I am so so sorry to hear of Ben’s passing. My heart felt condolences to the family. I used to live across Pflumm in Forest Trace until 2 years ago. Ben became a friend as he mowed my lawns for several years and we got to know each other. He was just an outstanding young man in every way and will be missed. Sending love your way…. Kathleen

Jason & Amy Lamb Oct 14, 2025

Children were classmates at St. Joseph ,Wichita ,Kansas

Paul, Erin & family, This just hit me like a ton of bricks. My, was Ben blessed to be part of your precious, loving, faithful, and successful family. We really don't know what to say. Other than this breaks our hearts, and we pray Our Lord will help you find peace and comfort as soon as possible. Lean on each other, and know you're surrounded by friends and a faith community that will love, support, and comfort you. Jason & Amy Lamb

Michael Webb Oct 14, 2025

Friend ,Shawnee ,Kansas

Paul and Erin. I am so sorry to hear of this devasting loss. I will be in prayer for you and your entire family. May God's loving arms wrap you in His grace.

Chris Bruegge Family Oct 14, 2025

Friend ,Shawnee ,Kansas

We were sorry to hear of Ben’s passing, we knew Ben through Jack Calonge and he was always responded when we needed our lawn take care of in a pinch. He was a wonderful young man and we are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and Prayers go out to you all

Jill Vogel Hinton Oct 14, 2025

I am so sorry for your loss. My heart aches for all of you. Praying for strength and comfort for your family.

Terry Miller Oct 14, 2025

Friend of the family ,Overland Park ,Kansas

Erin, Paul and Abby…I am just heartbroken over the news of your sweet son and sending prayers for your entire large and loving family. Ben now touches the face of God and is safe and at peace. May our God wrap you with a comfort only he can until one day you are reunited. You will be in my prayers in all the hard days to come as you wrestle with this unimaginable loss.

Joe Conejo Oct 14, 2025

Classmates ,Kansas City ,Kansas

Amber and family, my deepest condolences to you guys. Never want to hear news like this. Will keep your family in my prayers as the healing begins.

John Kohl Oct 14, 2025

Friend ,Hoschton ,Georgia

So sorry Erin and Paul for your families loss. Prayers for comfort at this difficult time. John

Garrett Smith Oct 14, 2025

High School Friend ,Olathe ,Kansas

I’m just speechless. I really don’t know what else to say. Ben and I were great friends in high school and he will be greatly missed by me and my family. I am very sad to hear that he passed away. I will always cherish the friendship I had with him.

David Lindquist Oct 15, 2025

Friendly ,Denver ,Colorado

Paul & Erin, It is with great sadness that I write this note to you as a friend who is grieving alongside of all who knew and love your son. I hope and pray that the incredible memories you shared together comfort you all during this painful time. Blessing and Peace, David Lindquist

Jill and Eric Halverson Oct 15, 2025

Friends ,Olathe ,Kansas

Paul, Erin and Abby, We were so devastated to hear about Ben. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this unimaginable time. With deepest sympathy, Jill and Eric Halverson

Jack Fields Oct 15, 2025

Lyn and I were so sorry to learn of Ben’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Barrett family.

Brett Malik Oct 15, 2025

friend ,Lenexa ,Kansas

Paul & Erin, I continue to be speechless after hearing the tragic news. I offer your entire family my deepest condolences and you will be in my prayers.

Gina Hurtado Taylor Oct 15, 2025

Dear Erin & Paul, I was so sad to read of your sons passing on Facebook. My sincere condolences for your loss. May God wrap you in his loving arms at this tragic time. Sincerely, Gina and Family

Jeff Lipp Oct 15, 2025

So very sorry for your loss. Such heartbreaking news. My heart grieves for you all. Prayers will continue for peace and understanding at this difficult time. May God be with you to comfort you.

Claire Dopp Oct 15, 2025

High school classmate ,Wichita ,Kansas

Sending my deepest condolences and love to the Barrett family. Ben was a wonderful member of the St. James community and always had a kind, reassuring presence. It was so clear to me that he was raised to be a gentleman and to treat everyone he met with the utmost respect, and he did just that. I’m so greatly sorry for your loss and will be praying for your family.

Judy Foley Oct 15, 2025

Friend ,Shawnee ,Kansas

I’m so sorry for your loss. God bless Ben and God bless you all.

Irvin Pete Oct 15, 2025

State Farm Agent ,Kansas City ,Missouri

To Erin Barrett & Family, Please accept our deepest condolences during this time of loss. My heart truly aches for you. We are praying that God’s comforting presence will surround you, sustain your strength, and bring you peace in the days ahead. You and your family will remain in our prayers. With love and sympathy, Irvin Pete and Family

Sister Yesenia Oct 15, 2025

Please accept my deepest condolences for the eternal rest of Ben's soul. I recently found a picture of him teaching me how to catch fish in your pond. Back then he was still a child, always with a sweet smile showing us the eggs that were about to hatch. My heart aches. Please be assured of my prayers and will offer three Masses for his eternal repose. Greetings from Quito, Ecuador.

Steve and Patty Carter Oct 15, 2025

Friend ,Clinton ,Missouri

Our deepest sympathy to all the family. Prayers for all of you

Nancy McKinley Oct 15, 2025

lawn care client ,Shawnee ,Kansas

I thought Ben was a fine, respectful, hard-working young man who always tried to please. I was very impressed. I was stunned to see that he has left us. My condolences to the family.

Angela & Jayme LaRocca Oct 15, 2025

Friend ,Kansas City ,Kansas

Paul, Erin & Abby, We are so sorry for your loss. Our hearts go out to you and your family. Hugs and prayers, Angie & Jayme

John Miller Oct 15, 2025

Cousin ,Olathe ,Kansas

Paul, Erin and Abigail. I am saddened to hear of Ben’s passing. May you be comforted in the good memories you have and may God bless all of you.

Angela & Jayme LaRocca Oct 15, 2025

Friend ,Kansas city ,Kansas

Paul, Erin and Abby, We are so sorry for your loss. Our hearts go out to you. Hugs and prayers for you and your family. Love, Angie and Jayme

Stacey Ramey Ruggs Oct 15, 2025

I attended school with Erin ,Port Orange ,Florida

I am so sorry for your loss. I send you hugs and prayers and strength to get through this horrible time in your lives. Please know you are not alone and you are loved.

Chris Holton Oct 15, 2025

Friend ,Olathe ,Kansas

Paul and Erin, my heart goes out to you and your family. I’m so deeply sorry for your loss and praying for comfort and peace during this unimaginable time.

Brogan Williams Oct 15, 2025

friend and coworker ,Lenexa ,Kansas

Though I only had the pleasure of knowing Ben a short while, he quickly became one of my favorite persons. He was a hard worker dedicated to learning and bettering himself and a naturally gifted mechanic. But He was not only was a great mechanic, but a great friend who made the work fun and was always a joy to talk to. The shop feels empty without him there. My most heartfelt condolences and prayers are with you.

Merry Gerdeman Oct 15, 2025

Friend of extended family ,Lees Summit ,Missouri

I am so very sorry for your loss. My heart is heavy and hurts for the grief you are feeling. You all are in my thoughts and prayers. May you feel God’s peace, comfort, and strength in the coming days.

Angela Spurgin Oct 15, 2025

Cousin ,Lawrence ,Kansas

Erin, Paul, and Abby I am so very sorry to hear about Ben. My heart is breaking for all of you. Sending all my love and prayers for you and your family.

Mike Wyatt Oct 15, 2025

Friend ,St Charles ,Missouri

To Paul, Erin and family I’m so very sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences to you in these difficult times.

Ronald Rice Oct 16, 2025

Friend ,Shawnee ,Kansas

I came to love Ben and all that he was. Not letting me touch anything that might be too heavy, always offering to help, especially things that he thought that I shouldn't do. His compassion was a blessing to all of those around him! I am so very, very thankful that I was able to share part of our lives together! I will cherish it forever.

Dave and Marcie pierce Oct 16, 2025

Friends ,Bonner Springs ,Kansas

Dear Paul and Erin, our prayers are with all of you. Stay strong for each other and keep the faith. May God be with you!

Randy Lopez Oct 16, 2025

My deepest condolences to the entire family. May God’s strength and mercy comfort you . Ben will be remembered for his beautiful and caring spirit.

Karen Glavin Oct 16, 2025

Friend ,Shawnee ,Kansas

Paul, Erin, Abby, I am so deeply sorry for your loss. I will be praying for you, Ben, your family and Friends. I will always remember Ben with a smile, his helpful, kind nature, and always giving attitude. He was the kind of person that wanted to make others feel included. If I ever needed help in my classroom, he was there. Ben was always such a great example of a hardworking, wonderful man. He will be remembered and he will be missed. If your family needs anything, you just reach out.

John & Theresa Wills Oct 16, 2025

Friend ,Shawnee ,Kansas

Our hearts are with you. Keep Ben’s wonderful memories in your hearts. We are thinking of you during this difficult time. John & Theresa Wills

Timothy & Tannikia Williams Oct 16, 2025

Friend ,Kansas City ,Missouri

Dear Erin & Paul, Tannikia & I want to send our heartfelt condolences to your Family. May Ben rest in peace and my your family find comfort in the holy spirit. We are praying for you. Love, Tim & Tannikia

Anna McNamara Oct 16, 2025

High School Classmate ,Olathe ,Kansas

Paul and Erin, I am so very sorry to hear about Ben. It sounds like he was a wonderful young man. My thoughts and prayers are with you and all of your family at this very difficult time. May God hold all of you in his hands and provide you with the comfort you need.

Ann & Matt Zimmerman Oct 16, 2025

Neighbor ,Shawnee ,Kansas

Ben holds such a special place in our hearts. Not only was he kind and always ready to help, he was smart and hardworking and always learning. We loved our conversations with him. There is only one Ben Barrett and he will be deeply missed. Our hearts and prayers are with you! Ann & Matt

Robben & Lori Roesler Oct 16, 2025

Neighbor ,Shawnee

Ben was a wonderful part of our neighborhood and our community. He made such an impact using his gifts and talents. He always waved hello! He was patient with our son to show him his motorcycles. He unknowingly served as a mentor to him. I’d always say, “Ben wears a helmet, and so should you to be safe.” I pray that God eases your pain and heartbreak. We will always remember Ben as the kind-hearted person that he was and always will be.

Roy and Leah Copeland Oct 16, 2025

Friend ,Kansas City ,Missouri

Erin and Paul I am so sorry to hear of Ben’s passing and my condolences to each of you all. Again I am so sorry.

Cathy Oct 17, 2025

Parent of classmates ,Reeds Spring ,Missouri

Prayers and Hugs to you on your loss. I know this is a very difficult time. May peace chime soon

Jay and Stefanie Litteken Oct 17, 2025

Friend ,St. Louis ,Missouri

Paul, Erin and Abby, We are so saddened to hear about Ben. May your many happy memories together be a blessing and a comfort to you and your family. Love, Jay and Stefanie

Sister Cecilia Lopez Oct 17, 2025

Sister Servants of Mary, friend's family ,New Orleans ,Louisiana

I am a Sister Servant of Mary, and I lived in Kansas from 1997 to 1999 and from 2015 to 2018. I always remember hearing about Barrett's friendship. I lost my nine-year-old niece in January. There are no words to relieve the pain, but I really believe Saint Maria Soledad interceded for him. We did not know the immeasurable mercy of God. May God bless you.

Shari L. Wilson Oct 18, 2025

Erin, Paul, and family, I’m so sorry to learn of Ben’s passing. May his memory be a blessing. Shari