May 18, 1949---Jun 25, 2025

Douglas D. Friedly, 76, of Bonner Springs, KS, passed away Wednesday, June 25, 2025.  A Rosary will be prayed at 5:00 PM, followed by visitation from 5:15-7:00 PM Sunday, June 29, 2025 at Sacred Heart Catholic Church, 5501 Monticello Road, Shawnee, KS.  Funeral Mass will be 10:30 AM Monday, June 30, at Sacred Heart Catholic Church.  Burial at Bonner Springs Cemetery, Bonner Springs, KS.  Memorial contributions may be made to the Knights of Columbus and/or an education fund for his grandchildren, c/o Arlene Friedly.

Doug was born May 18, 1949, in Great Bend, KS to Leonard H. and Bonnie J. (Watt) Friedly.  He was a graduate of Claflin High School in 1967 and Fort Hays College in 1971.  Doug was a Speech and Drama teacher for 33 years at Phillipsburg High School, Phillipsburg, KS and he enjoyed announcing sports activities and judging debate and forensics events. Then he worked at Ameristar Casino for five years and then Enterprise until his death. 

On August 30, 1969, he married Arlene M. Tinkel at St. Rose Catholic Church in Great Bend, KS.  Family was first for Doug, enjoying the grandkids activities, playing golf, cards (playing his rules), and camping. Doug was preceded in death by his parents, sister Nancy Conde, in-laws Albert and Laura Tinkel, and his nephew Trevor Cates.  Doug is survived by his wife of 55 years, Arlene, son Duane and his wife Amy, Shawnee, KS, daughter Dawn and her husband Brian of Shawnee, KS, grandchildren Saige, Jaxson, Tenley, Kyndal, Madelyn, Bridawn, Renick, brothers Craig (Julie), Roger (Joree), sisters Mariann (Gary) Shook, Connie (Bob) Lowe, brothers-in-law Joe (Conde), Louis (Janice) Tinkel, Alvita (Bob) Cates and many nieces and nephews. 



Condolences

Doug Jun 26, 2025

Friend ,Overland Park ,Kansas

True love stories never have endings. He was your poet and you will forever be his poetry. Your love story isn't finished.

Larry Williams Jun 26, 2025

Friend, & co-worker ,Olathe ,Kansas

To Doug's family, I had the privilege of working with him several times. He was one of our lead drivers & was always thoughtful of the coworkers riding with him. He enjoyed talking about his family, watching the grandkids & his time teaching in western Kansas. I feel blessed to have known him the past few years we have worked together. May you cherish the good times & know we will meet again. May God give your family strength during this time. You are in our thoughts & prayers. Sincerely, Larry Williams

Mike and Kelly T Jun 27, 2025

Co-worker ,Shawnee ,Kansas

I worked with Doug. Enjoyed my time with him. Sorry for your loss, our thoughts and prayers are with the family. Mike & Kelly T.

Vicki Ritter Jun 27, 2025

My sincere condolences to all of Doug’s family. I went to high school with most all of them. Doug was always a kind and caring person. I remember seeing him in Phillipsburg when my son played in a golf tournament there. He was just as genuine as always. Sending prayers for comfort for Arlene and his family. Vicki Arbuckle Ritter

Rita Gknzalez Jun 27, 2025

Friend and coworker ,Charlotte ,North Carolina

I am very sorry for your lost. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and players.

Dave Anderson Jun 29, 2025

Friend ,Overland Park ,Kansas

I have had the pleasure of working with Doug these last few years. I quickly learned to respect and appreciate Doug's friendship and good character. He deeply loved his wife and family and brought joy to all those he interacted with. I will miss him and want to extend my deepest sympathies to Arlene and family. Dave Anderson

Nancy Smith Jun 29, 2025

Friend at Enterprise ,PRAIRIE VILLAGE ,Kansas

It has been a pleasure knowing and to have worked with Doug at Enterprise. He was a very kind and easy going person to work with. We will miss his smile and his little tid bits of knowledge when we were driving together. He always was taking about his family. Will miss him dearly. Will keep his family in our thoughts and prayers.

Paul Siglinger & Tracy Sanson Jun 30, 2025

Family Friend ,Phillipsburg, KS ,Kansas

Doug’s friendship with our family will be forever cherished. His love, kindness, and gentle spirit will always be remembered. We are deeply saddened by his passing, and our thoughts and prayers are with Arlene and the entire family during this difficult time.

Services

Event:
Rosary
Location:
Sacred Heart of Jesus Catholic Church
Address:
5501 Monticello Road
City:
Shawnee
State:
Kansas
Zip Code:
66226
Date:
Jun 29, 2025
Time:
5:00 PM
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Event:
Funeral Mass
Location:
Sacred Heart of Jesus Catholic Church
Address:
5501 Monticello Road
City:
Shawnee
State:
Kansas
Zip Code:
66226
Date:
Jun 30, 2025
Time:
10:30 AM
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