Gary W. Abraham, Age: 71
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Feb 09, 1955---Mar 15, 2026

 Gary W. Abraham passed away at his home in Kansas City, Kansas, on the morning of March 15, 2026. He was a wonderful, funny, and caring person to all who knew and loved him.

Gary was born on February 9, 1955, to Clyde and Betty Abraham in Kansas City, Kansas. A proud lifelong “Dotte,” Gary cherished his roots and the community he called home. He was preceded in death by his father, Clyde (1998); his mother, Betty (2007); and his big brother and best friend, Phil (2025).

He is survived by his sister, Janet of Kansas City, Kansas; nieces Julie (Matt) McElroy of Brentwood, Tennessee, and Amanda of Woodstock, Georgia; nephew Bradley (Lindsey) of Canton, Georgia; and his beloved great‑nieces and great‑nephews: Ryan, Owen, and Anna; Joshua, James, and Ava; and Emma and Penelope. Gary also leaves behind many cousins and friends who will miss him dearly.

Gary worked at several jobs in his youth, including General Motors, Sunshine Biscuit, Robinson Shoe Rack, and KC Slugger. He later retired from Triangle Sales in 2019.

A lover of sports, Gary played 3&2 baseball on several teams in his youth, often coached by his father, Clyde. A knee injury eventually sidelined him, but he later enjoyed playing softball and basketball with friends. Gary also loved fishing and owned several bass boats—fishing was truly his passion. He enjoyed building things with his hands and took pride in working on projects. There was no bigger fan of the Kansas City Chiefs, Kansas City Royals, and the Kansas Jayhawks, than Gary.

Gary was genuinely kind, generous, and funny. He would give you the shirt off his back to help anyone. A simple man who was happy and content, Gary loved his family more than anything in the world. He will be deeply missed by all who had the honor of knowing and loving him. 

Though his body is no longer here, Gary’s kindness, love, and influence live on. He remains present in shared stories, laughter, and the values he held dear.

A memorial service will be held on Saturday, April 25, 2026, at 10:30 a.m. at:

Old Mission Methodist Church

5519 State Park Road

Fairway, KS 66202

Reception to follow from 11:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m.

 


Condolences

Bill Pollock Mar 24, 2026

Friend ,Spring Hill ,Kansas

To Janet and all of Gary’s family, words can’t express how sorry I am for your loss. Gary was a dear friend of mine and we spent countless hours together fishing, golfing, hunting, and in recent years just visiting at Gary’s house. I can’t remember a time when we were together that Gary didn’t mention someone in his family. Most of the time Gary would receive a text or phone call from a family member, just checking on him or to say hi. You all meant the world to Gary and it was obvious that he meant the world to you all as well. Gary, I love you dearly and will miss you, My Friend!!!

Lori Whitson Mar 24, 2026

Fruend ,Gardner ,Kansas

Gary’s passing is unimaginable and heartbreaking. So many memories from our growing up on Stewart Avenue. From harassing Gary about not having a door on his bedroom to Janet and I watching the guys play basketball in the Abraham’s backyard, and being at practically every 3&2 baseball game. When Clyde would let Gary drive the awesome blue “Goat,” we couldn’t get in the car fast enough to go along, in hopes of being seen at Peter’s drive in. Gary was simply a great guy. Anyone that knew him knew they had a loyal friend. I’ll miss you, Gary.

Judy and Pat Stanley Mar 24, 2026

We are thinking of you all and are praying for you. Many good memories of Gary and his smiling face. Memory Eternal!

Wyandotte High School Class of 73 Mar 25, 2026

Classmates ,Kansas ,Kansas

The Wyandotte HS Class of 1973 would like to send our Condolences and Prayers to the family during this difficult time. He will be dearly missed.

Kevin Lynch Mar 25, 2026

Friend ,Maineville ,Ohio

Janet and family, I am so sorry for your loss. I was shocked when I learned of Gary passing. I knew of Gary years before I met and became friends with Gary and the Wyandotte guys. When we were little kids playing 3&2 baseball on different teams, Gary was know as that big guy that could really hit. Gary always hit very well against us, Usually a rocket to the gap in left center. Any time we were together Gary always kept every one laughing. So many great times. Like everyone else I will miss Gary and remember the good times.

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Services

Event:
Memorial Service
Location:
Old Mission United Methodist Church
Address:
5519 State Park Road
City:
Fairway
State:
Kansas
Zip Code:
66219
Date:
Apr 25, 2026
Time:
10:30 AM
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Event:
Gathering of Family of Friends
Location:
Old Mission United Methodist Church
Address:
5519 State Park Road
City:
Fairway
State:
Kansas
Zip Code:
66219
Date:
Apr 25, 2026
Time:
11:30 AM
Google Map:
Click Here to see Location on Map