Mary Alice Vander Woude, born December 8, 1940, in Zeeland, Michigan, passed away on November 3, 2026, at the age of 85, leaving behind a legacy of love, laughter, friendship, and countless memories.

Mary graduated from Hope College, where she earned her degree in education and was crowned May Day Queen in 1962. She went on to teach fourth grade, a career she enjoyed until the birth of her son, Matthew.

Mary lived most of her life in Green Bay, Wisconsin, but spent her final six months in Overland Park, Kansas, to be closer to family.

Mary had a wonderful gift for connecting with people. She later managed Four Seasons Tennis Club, where she became a familiar and beloved presence. She knew everyone by name and built lasting friendships with members and guests alike. Her friendly nature, quick wit, and genuine interest in others made everyone feel welcome.

She was kind, funny, and truly the life of the party, bringing energy and laughter wherever she went. An athlete at heart, Mary loved an active lifestyle. She shared her passion for fitness by teaching aerobics and enjoyed horseback riding, along with the challenge and competition of playing tennis and golf.

Mary also had a signature style all her own. She loved beautiful clothes, was always dressed to the nines, and had a very large collection of hats. Rarely seen without one, she had a hat for every occasion. Her favorite color was yellow, a fitting reflection of the sunshine and joy she brought to those around her.

Above all, Mary treasured her family and friends. Time spent together, laughter shared, and memories made were among her greatest joys. She had a special way of making ordinary moments memorable and will be remembered for her warmth, humor, quick wit, and zest for life. She also had a sweet tooth and never ended a meal without a hot fudge sundae.

Mary loved and trusted the Lord Jesus Christ, and her faith was an important part of her life.

Mary was preceded in death by her twin brother, BJ Berghorst; her sister, Marcia Davis; and her parents, Willard and Rosamond Berghorst.

She is survived by her two children, Amy Vander Woude Mertz and her husband, Ronald, and Matthew Vander Woude and his wife, Noy; her grandchildren, Lauren McCarty and her husband, Cal, Mya Mertz, and Graham Mertz; her great-grandson, Bo Ronald McCarty; and her nieces and nephews, Anne Colquitt, Tim Davis, Mike Davis, and Mary Dance, along with their families.

Mary will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved her. Her laughter, unmistakable style, love of people, and enthusiasm for life will live on in the hearts of her family and friends. She leaves behind a lifetime of memories and a reminder to embrace life, stay active, dress beautifully, enjoy a good laugh, and cherish the people around you.

Celebration of Life

Friday, December 11, 2026

First United Methodist Church

501 Howe Street

Green Bay, WI 54301

Visitation: 10:00 a.m.

Celebration of Life: 11:00