Jan 04, 1949---Feb 17, 2019

Winnona was born January 4, 1949, in Hardtner, Kansas.  She was preceded in death by her father Dale Wilhite.  Winnona is survived by her husband of 50 years, Arthur Gene (Joe) Thompson, mother Norma Wilhite, two children Christopher (Carrie) Thompson, Erin (Cary) Hayes, and six grandchildren Carter, Baleigh, and Bennett Thompson, and Abigail, Elizabeth, and Evan Hayes.  

After graduation from Hardtner High School in 1967, Winnona went on to Pratt Community College and received her Associate’s Degree.  It was here that she met Joe, and after a short courtship, they were married on June 28, 1969. 

Joe and Winnie (as he nicknamed her) moved to Wichita, Kansas.  Their son, Christopher, was born in 1973, and shortly after they built their first home in Schulte, Kansas. Their daughter, Erin, was born in 1975, and the family remained in Schulte until 1982, when they moved to west Wichita, building a home in Rainbow Lakes where they lived until moving to Kansas City in 2004 to be with their children and grandchildren.  

Winnie was a dedicated and loving mom and grandma, centering her life around helping to raise and support all of them.  She was always proud of her kids, watching them grow up and raise families of their own.  She spent countless hours babysitting, transporting, and watching them play sports.  She especially loved watching her grandsons play baseball, soccer, and basketball, and the girls at their soccer, volleyball, and softball games.  She was the ultimate fan.  Rarely did she miss a game, no matter the weather.  

Winnie had the gift of making everyone feel like family—from the neighbors she was blessed to befriend and support to the clan of kids who occupied her basement on a regular basis (whether she knew it or not).  She was able to spend many unforgettable vacations, sailing and exploring the world, with some of her very best friends.  She became a second mom to countless friends of her kids—stocking the shelves with Doritos and Oreos—and never complaining about being the ultimate host to anyone who needed a place to be.  She knew how to make others feel comfortable and at home wherever she was.

To say she will be missed is an understatement.  The friends and family that she leaves behind are a testament to her love and loyalty, and she will not be forgotten. 

Memorial Service Friday, February 22, 2019 1:00 p.m. at Porter’s Funeral Home, 8535 Monrovia, Lenexa, KS  66215 

Following the memorial, friends and family are invited to meet at Tanner’s Bar & Grill, 22374 W 66th St, Shawnee, KS 66226.

In lieu of flowers the family suggests memorial contributions to the American Diabetes Association or the American Heart Association.

                

 



Condolences

Diana Thompson Feb 19, 2019

Sisters-in-law ,Wichita ,Kansas

Losing someone so close in this family is devastating. Too young to be called away. Truly going to be missed. I will never forget her first introduction to the family at a Thanksgiving dinner. Great times with a pie fight after the meal. The look on her face was awesome. Didn’t know if she really wanted to belong in this crazy family but I am glad she did. Love her to the moon and back. Winnie you will be missed.

Josh Brewster Feb 20, 2019

High school classmate of Chris ,Wichita ,Kansas

So sorry for your loss.

Karen Blubaugh Feb 20, 2019

Friends of Carrie and Chris ,Goddard ,Kansas

Carrie, Chris and family, Melanie called to let me know the shocking news.. so sorry to hear about Winnie’s passing.. just want you to know you are in my thoughts and prayers.. Karen Blubaugh

Joyce Wilhite Snow Feb 20, 2019

1st cousin ,Andrews ,Texas

We had a lot of fun growing up in Hardtner. It is so hard to believe she has passed this young. Condolences to her family and friends.

Marsha Oehlert Feb 20, 2019

neighborhood friend ,Shawnee ,Kansas

Winnie's amazing energy, wit and friendliness will be missed by all of us in the neighborhood. She was the ultimate hostess and truly made guests in her and Joe's home feel so welcome. We will miss her million dollar smile!

David Dennis Feb 20, 2019

Friend ,Liberty ,Missouri

Joe and family, sorry to hear about Winnona. I can remember meeting her and giggling at the feistiness. The few times I met her she was always bubbly and full of energy and obviously keeping Joe in line. May God Bless you and the family, Heaven has gained another Angel. Prayers to all

Peggy Kilian Feb 20, 2019

friend ,Goddard ,Kansas

Joe, I'm so sorry to hear about Winnie. It was such a shock to hear the news. I will pray that God gives you & your family peace and strength at this difficult time.

RICK AND KATHY MARCHETTI Feb 20, 2019

FRIENDS ,wichita ,Kansas

Joe so sorry to here about Winnie what a shock our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family

Jim and D'Narda Coggins Feb 20, 2019

Friends ,Cheney ,Kansas

Joe and family. We are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you.

Claude Olson Feb 20, 2019

Hardtner High School, Class of 1967 ,Glenpool ,Oklahoma

Rest in peace, sweet Winnona. There are so many fond memories to reflect upon.

Sally Blasi Feb 20, 2019

friend ,Wichita

Joe, Chris and Erin - Jeff let me know about this. Your family holds a special place in my memories from long ago. I will never forget the kindness Joe and Winnie showed by coaching several of my volleyball and softball teams, simply because I asked, and they asked nothing in return. You, Chris and Erin, were my favorite (un-related) children in my teenage years! Your family is special. Winnie was truly a role model in so many ways. I am so sorry for your loss.

Lori Wilson Feb 22, 2019

Friend ,Independence ,Missouri

My sincere sympathy is extended to you and your entire family. I never met your wife, but you told some pretty funny stories. You could tell how you loved her dearly. Prayers for peace and comfort for now and the days ahead. Lori Wilson O'Connor - Lee's Summit Mo

Jeff Logan Feb 22, 2019

friend ,Wichita ,Kansas

Joe - So sorry to have learned the sad news this morning. Sure wish I had learned sooner so I could be there for the services. Winnie was one of a kind - - - can't remember ever seeing her without a smile on her face. I can only imagine the loss you feel, but I know her spirit and love will live on in you, your entire family and many others. Sometimes God smiles on us by bringing special people into our lives. I'm thankful He brought you and Winnie into ours. Love you buddy.

Jim Kisel Feb 22, 2019

Former neighbor ,Katy ,Texas

Joe, Chris and Erin, I was both shocked and saddened when I heard about Winnie. What a great neighbor and friend she was to all of us. She always had a smile on her face and was so proud of her family. I'm sure she was an awesome Grandma because she always loved having kids around and enjoyed the "activity". And, keeping Joe in line also kept her busy. You all are in my thoughts and prayers. May God bless you with peace and understanding as he welcomes Winnie home.

Jake Kohlmeier Feb 22, 2019

Dear Joe, Chris, and Erin, I was very saddened to hear of Winnie's passing. She was a wonderful person and taken far too soon. My sincerest condolences to you and your family.

judywegman@gmail.com Feb 22, 2019

Joe’s classmate ,Shawee ,Kansas

Joe just learned of your wife death. So sorry! Wish I knew earlier I would have been at the service. Prayers for you and her. I am so saddened.

Travis and Jane Mayer Feb 24, 2019

Joe and family. We are so sorry to hear about Winnie. She was a very special lady. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Riley Davis Feb 26, 2019

Friend ,Kansas City ,Missouri

Brenda and I are sad to hear about the family's loss. We shared some times at Hardi events with Winnie and know that she will be missed greatly. Best wishes to Joe and Chris along with the rest of the family.

Services

Event:
Memorial Service
Location:
Porter Funeral Home
Address:
8535 Monrovia St
City:
Lenexa
State:
Kansas
Zip Code:
66215
Date:
Feb 22, 2019
Time:
1:00 PM
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