Apr 03, 1972---Jun 01, 2020

Robert John Spaniol of Olathe Kansas passed away suddenly at his place of work on June 1, 2020.

He is survived by his wife Chassidy Spaniol, 3 children Juliana Kathryn, Ella Marie and Jack Everett; parents, John and Kay Spaniol;   in-laws Julie and Mike Johnson Jennifer Keller, John Johnson and Ashley Schantell; Siblings, Frances Wahl (Brent), Michael Spaniol, Marie Ward (Dave), Ted Spaniol and Betsy Funk (Jeff) along with aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews and cousins too numerous to be mentioned by name, but all of whom will miss his wit and humor terribly. He will also be missed by a contingency of fun-loving cousins from Minnesota with whom he was very close.

He joins the following family in heaven:  cousin Kevin Morrow, Uncle Stephen P. Morrow, III, cousin Rebekah Barrett, and Uncle Charles McFarlan 

Rob met Chassidy through friends. After dating 5 years, they were married on October 19, 2002 at Holy Cross Catholic Church in Overland Park. 

He was born on April 3, 1972 and attended Bishop Miege High School.  He obtained his Bachelor of Science degree from DeVry University in Network and Communication Management.  He earned a Master of Science degree in Organizational Development Psychology from Avila University.

Rob has worked for 8 years at the University of Kansas Health Systems as a Vendor Relations Specialist. He leaves behind coworkers who express a sincere bond with him, and an admiration for his innovation in the department.  He will be difficult to replace.

He was first and foremost an incredible husband and father. As a husband to Chassidy, anniversary dinners and weekend get-aways were the norm. As the fun Dad, trips to the beach, father-daughter dances, soccer games and his son’s baseball games were all priorities. A scroll through his facebook would show even the casual onlooker that life with his kids and wife were his most joyful times.

From boyhood, Rob’s common thread through life was his mischievous giggle. Whether mooning his nephews on a bike ride, buying beer for an underage sister, or causing havoc in the household, life was not to be taken too seriously.  He would do literally ANYTHING for a laugh.

Family members remember fondly the childhood trips Rob enjoyed. Lake of the Ozarks, Canoe trips to Bennet Springs and Odessa Lake camping trips with family friends were the highlights of his formative years.

Rob was uniquely his own person and anyone who met him was quickly struck by his sense of humor. He frequently insisted his real mother was a Swedish princess who would one day find him, give him all her money and make him instantly independently wealthy.

He adored his Indian motorcycle and had numerous plans to travel both alone and with Chassidy.  In particular, he planned to make a solo, soul searching trip to the southwest this summer.

Thank you, Rob for always being that funny, irreverent force in our lives that can never be replaced.  We all look forward to laughing with you when we meet again.

As an expression of sympathy, memorial contributions can be made to the Robert J. Spaniol Childrens’ College fund in c/o Porter Funeral Home (8535 Monrovia Street, Lenexa, KS 66215).



Condolences

Bethany A Pendleton Jun 05, 2020

Classmate ,Austin ,Texas

I am so saddened to hear about Rob. We were classmates and friends at Queen and Miege. He was such a smart, funny guy. I remember him as someone that was always bluntly honest, super funny and always had a smart-aleck grin on his face. He was always laughing or looking for a reason to laugh. I have such great memories of him at school. I am so very sorry for your loss. - Bethany Pendleton

Amy Larison Jun 05, 2020

Former childhood neighbor ,Mesquite ,Texas

My condolences to your family.

Shelley Wilcox Jun 06, 2020

Friend ,Olathe ,Kansas

I am so sorry and devastated for the loss of Rob for the whole Spaniol family. From the moment I heard about what happened up until now my heart hurts and I am devastated. The moment I met Rob I laughed. And the moment I introduced Rob and Chassidy, I knew it was special. The way he looked at her, the way he felt about her and just him in general. There are too many stories to tell about what we used to do together. But it was always fun when Rob was involved. He would always want to prank someone, make you laugh, say something funny, or want to lend a helping hand. He was an amazing father, an excellent husband, And a fantastic friend. He would drop anything he was doing to help you out. He always wanted the center of attention, but it was well deserved . I will never forget him, I will always love him and have a special place in my heart for him,And so do my children. He is known to us as Robbie Bobbie😊 He will definitely be missed, but he will definitely live on and all the lives he touched and make us all better people!

Gene Schreiner Jun 07, 2020

Serran ,Mission ,Kansas

John and Kay I'm sorry for the loss of your young son. I believe he was a Miege between the times of my 2 older sons and 2 younger sons. I will be trying to make a Plenary Indulgence for him today (Sunday). My our Lord Jesus Christ quickly take Robert to him final heavenly eternal home. God Bless his Holy Soul. Gene

Angela Greer Jun 07, 2020

The Greer family sends their deepest sympathy. We knew Rob through Holy Cross and his daughter Ella was a good friend of Ethan our oldest son. Rob will be greatly missed. Sending our love and comfort.

Jen Wilson Charlton Jun 07, 2020

Classmate ,Kansas

Your family is in my prayers. Rob was a great person and fun to be around. I was lucky enough to be the labor nurse when you had one of your beautiful girls. He was so proud of his family . He was sure to show off his little boy when you all came back a few years later. Thinking of you all in this difficult time.. With sympathy, Jen

Lark Oxler Jun 07, 2020

Friend ,Overland Park ,Kansas

I am so sorry to hear the news of Rob’s passing. I knew him in high school and what I remember about Rob was of course, his laugh and smile, which was a constant, but also the depth of his kindness and his ability to hold space for you as his friend. He always listened. I’m truly grateful to have known him.

Sarah Muessig Book Jun 07, 2020

Grade school and high school classmates ,Shawnee

My heart is so heavy with the news of Robs passing. I remember Rob as quick witted with a sarcastic sense of humor I could really appreciate. I remember him as always smiling. My prayers are with your family. Love, Sarah

Bill and Jean Buchanan Jun 07, 2020

Friends of John and Kay Spaniol ,Leawood ,Kansas

To John and Kay. We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your son. We had never met him, but from reading his obituary it sounds like he was a delightful guy. We send our heartfelt sympathy to you and to all those who will miss him.

Mary Schneck Jun 07, 2020

classmate ,Overland Park ,Kansas

I am so sorry to hear about Rob's passing. I was in his class at Bishop Miege. I remember him as a funny guy who knew everyone. Please know you all are in my thoughts and prayers.

Kristi Kloster Burritt Jun 07, 2020

Classmate ,Olathe ,Kansas

I’m so sorry to hear about Rob’s sudden passing. His laugh was contagious. We pray your memories will bring you comfort during this time.

Dan Morman Jun 07, 2020

High School Friend ,gardner ,Kansas

My deepest sympathies to the Spaniol family. Rob had an incredible sense of humor, and when I was a freshman at Bishop Miege, I loved being around that. Rob was the only reason I stayed in wrestling that year. I was a terrible wrestler, but I went to practice because I knew I’d have a good laugh with him. He will be missed. May he rest in paradise.

Kyle Weber Jun 07, 2020

Friend ,Olathe ,Kansas

Deeply saddened to hear if Rob's passing. Growing up with him and Ted at QHR and Miege, Rob was rarely seen without a smile or mischievous grin on his face! It was always a pleasure to see his family at First Watch. It was obvious that his wife and children were his greatest treasure. Eternal rest grant unto him, O Lord, and may Perpetual Light shine upon him.

Marilyn and Mike Horsley Jun 07, 2020

MackeyStreet neighbors and friends ,Overland Park ,Kansas

We are saddened to hear of Robbie's passing. We remember him as the cute, funny, little blond boy who loved to follow his bigger brothers in play around the neighborhood. Prayers for his family

Vicki Jun 07, 2020

Co- Worker KU ,Blue Springs ,Missouri

First off I want to say Chassidy and your kids are still in my prayers. I was in so much shock when I heard about Robert's passing. For little over 2 years I sat right next to Rob, his sneaky laughs, paper clip football and uncanny -somedays nerve ticker ability to play the drums with his index fingers on his desk. I will so miss his: "Hurry! I have a quick question" instant messages, his email jokes and " new news". I will miss him.

Alex White Jun 08, 2020

Classmate ,Leawood ,Kansas

I went to Queen and Miege with Rob, and he had a great energy and wit about him that will surely be missed. Our prayers for the family and those for whom Rob touched throughout his life.

Eileen Brown Jun 08, 2020

I’m so stunned and sad to hear this. I havnt seen Rob for a few years. What a great guy and father. I was a classmate of his at Queen and Miege. God bless you Rob and your family. Rest In PeacešŸ™. I’ll be praying for you all.

Amy Muessig Fangman Jun 08, 2020

Grade school Friend of his sister Marie ,Shawnee ,Kansas

I’m so sad you’ve lost such a great man. I didn’t know him as a man. I just remember spending the night and kicking him out of the basement at the many sleep overs at The Spaniols. It was always a house of love and fun little brothers. I loved being there. Marie I’m so sorry you lost your brother. You all are in my prayers.

Paige Crawford Jun 08, 2020

AT&T prior employee ,Smithville ,Missouri

I am so saddened to hear about your loss of your husband and father to your children. No words can express the sympathy I have for your family my sincere condolences are being sent. Sorry your family has to go through this lean on each other and remember all the good times.

Amy Morfeld Jun 08, 2020

Rob and I went to Queen and Miege together, and our daughters went to Holy Cross together as well. Rob was one of the kindest men, always with a smile on his face. I am so sorry for your loss, and my thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Tom Field Jun 08, 2020

School friend ,Shawnee ,Kansas

Rob was a wonderful friend at Queen of the Holy Rosary. He had an incredible zest for living and served as a great example for living in the moment. He was completely present, and it’s that kind of person for whom time is never wasted. As I have been thinking about my time with Rob, each and every moment brings a smile to my face. I’m grateful for knowing Rob. He was among those QHR friends who helped this shy kid come out of his shell. My sincere condolences, prayers and love to all of Rob’s family and friends!

Malik James Jun 08, 2020

Classmate ,Kansas City ,Missouri

Impossible to forget, or match, Rob Spaniol’s energy as a classmate. Even harder to imagine how much he will be missed by his entire family. Most sincere condolences to his wife and children. Semper Fidelis, Rob.

Malik James Jun 08, 2020

Classmate ,Kansas City ,Missouri

Impossible to forget, or match, Rob’s energy back in high school. Even harder to imagine how much he will be missed by his entire family. Most sincere condolences to his wife and children. Semper Fidelis, Rob.

Stephanie Carey Jun 09, 2020

Holy Cross Parent and Friends ,Olathe ,Kansas

My deepest condolences to all. We had the amazing joy of meeting Rob and Chassidy through Marie at Holy Cross, and Greyson was classmates with Ella. Rob always made a point to say hello and take time to catch up at school events, and without fail could make you laugh and made your day brighter. I am absolutely heartbroken for Chassidy, the kids, Marie and family. Sending love and thoughts of comfort for God’s healing of your loss. Stephanie, Carey and Greyson

Tim Weaver Jun 09, 2020

Classmate ,Kansas City ,Kansas

Some lights shine a little brighter than others. A different intensity. A hotter flame. Rob has always been that sort of light. When I think back to our times growing up, he seemed to be always enjoying each moment at its fullest. Years later, I can hear his laugh and see that grin just as it was. To Rob's family, please know that so many of us were so lucky to have known him over the years. His unique light will continue to shine in our stories and memories.

Brent Boydston Jun 10, 2020

High School classmate ,Olathe ,Kansas

Rob was such a friendly soul with a contagious smile. I didn't see him as much lately but whenever I did see him he was always the same funny, warm person I knew in high school. Condolences to his family. Rest in peace Rob.

Lora Crow Jun 10, 2020

Friend and former colleague ,Salina ,Kansas

Rob was a wonderful person to work with. During my time in the patient relations department at KU, I called on him often to assist with my cases. He was incredibly kind, helpful and patient. He was also very funny. He spoke of his family often and even talked about his motorcycle. I found an Indian motorcycle brand bottle opener and our department gifted it to him for Christmas one year as a thank you for all of his help. I’m so very sorry for your loss and I wish you and your children the strength and wisdom to navigate this difficult time.

Beth Sabers Jun 10, 2020

We are so sorry to hear of Rob's passing. We have so many fond memories of him on the sidelines of Ella's soccer games with the HC girls. You all will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Burton Huerter Jun 10, 2020

Friend of family ,Overland Park ,Kansas

My thoughts and prayers are with you as we mourn the loss of Rob. May the Lord grant you Peace and Confort.

Corey Wendling Jun 10, 2020

Friend

I have great memories growing up with Rob as a neighbor and friend. My condolences go out to his family and friends.

Joe Spaniol Jun 10, 2020

Cousin ,Philadelphia ,Pennsylvania

I will sincerely miss Rob. His light attitude, humor, and ability to get along with everyone in the room are what I will always remember about him. Growing up, birthday parties and family events were always so much fun with him! He had a knack for making everyone laugh. To Johnny, Kay, Francie, Mike, Marie, Betsy, Chassidy, Juliana, Ella, and Jack: my thoughts and prayers are with you. I love you all. Sincerely, Joe Spaniol

Becky Moburg Jun 11, 2020

Friend and Colleague ,Liberty ,Missouri

I had the pleasure of working with Rob at the KU Health System for the past 6 years. He was my go-to for so many complicated situations, and always approachable and helpful. We quickly bonded over a love for music, and while I believe I am a whiz of pop culture, I didn't hold a candle next to Rob! He was an aficionado of great music and had a razor sharp wit my team and I will miss dearly. He was extraordinarily helpful to us, considerate and just fun to work with. I send my most sincere condolences to all of you, as I know he meant the world to you...and you to him.

Marie Spaniol Ward Jun 13, 2020

Sister ,Overland Park ,Kansas

I just want to say thank you all for posting your memories. I don't know if others check back to see what has been posted about Rob, but I appreciate all who have posted. It has not been an easy week and I know time will heal. Our faith that Rob is in heaven helps and thinking of him with those in our family who have gone before him, now is comforting. Grandma Jean was important to Rob and Chass, and I know she is laughing with him now in heaven. It's very comforting to know that he was to me that funny spirit - the same he was with anyone else.

Ella Spaniol Jun 14, 2020

Daughter ,Olathe ,Kansas

My dad (rob) loves you and will miss you

Kim L Jun 20, 2020

coworker ,overland park ,Kansas

I worked with Rob at KU@OP and he was a great person to work with-ALWAYS made us laugh and loved to annoy us(in a good way). My nickname he gave me was "Witch" and we would call him our Fester...if that tells you anything. : ) he always talked about his wife, kids and family. He was a joy to work with and always helpful. He will be missed greatly. Rest in Peace Rob (Fester)

Services

Event:
Visitation
Location:
Holy Cross Catholic Church
Address:
8311 West 93rd Street
City:
Overland Park
State:
Kansas
Zip Code:
66213
Date:
Jun 10, 2020
Time:
1:30 PM
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Event:
Funeral Service
Location:
Holy Cross Catholic Church
Address:
8311 West 93rd Street
City:
Overland Park
State:
Kansas
Zip Code:
66213
Date:
Jun 10, 2020
Time:
3:00 PM
Google Map: