Jul 02, 1937---Dec 09, 2020

 Gerald L. “Jerry” Grey, 83, of Shawnee, Kansas, passed away Wednesday, December 9, 2020 at St. Luke’s Hospital on the KC Plaza. Private Family Funeral Services with Military Honors will be at 10:30 a.m. Friday, December 11, at Porter Funeral Home, 8535 Monrovia, Lenexa, KS. The Funeral Service will be recorded and can be viewed after services are completed. Burial will follow in Chapel Hill Memorial Gardens, Kansas City, KS.
Jerry was born July 2, 1937, in Kansas City, KS and was a lifetime area resident. He had served in the U.S. Army from 1956-1959 in the Army Security Agency.  On June 16, 1962, he was united in marriage to Sandra Kent.
He owned and operated Jerry Grey Construction Company for over 35 years before retiring.
Jerry was very proud of his work with Cancer Action and was recognized as “Volunteer of the year” for 2020.
Jerry was a member of Grinter Chapel United Methodist Church and was the President of Grinter Place Friends. He was proud of his service to his country, owning his company and taking good care of his customers but most of all taking care and loving his family.
Jerry was preceded in death by his mother Claudine Jella, brothers Ron Grey, Ed Grey, Claude Grey, and sister Jean Courtwright.
He is survived by his wife Sandra Grey, son Alan (and wife Connie) Grey of Shawnee, KS and his daughter Amy (and husband Gene) Rice of Lee’s Summit, MO; five grandchildren Chelsea (and husband Ethan) Baxter, Emily Grey, Alex Grey, Dylan Rice and Adam Grey; one great grandchild Winston Richmond.
In Lieu of flowers the family suggests memorial contributions to Cancer Action, 10520 Barkley, Suite 100, Overland Park, KS 66212 or Grinter Place Friends, 1400 S 78th Street, Kansas City, KS 66111.



Condolences

Rich raymer Dec 09, 2020

Friend ,Olathe ,Kansas

Jerry was always smiling, kind and helpful to me. My condolences to his family

Dana Detrick Dec 09, 2020

Former Neighbor ,Kansas City ,Kansas

Condolences from my father Terry Detrick and I to the entire Grey family. Jerry was a wonderful neighbor for many years in KCK. You never saw him without a smile! Bless you all during this time.

J L Urich Farms Inc Dec 10, 2020

dear friend ,Laredo ,Missouri

Such a great guy! We are confident he is up there in Heaven, laughing and renewing old friendships. Our prayers are that Jesus will comfort all of you and heal your hurt and lonliness. your friends, John and Linda and all the family.

Carrie Kent Dec 10, 2020

niece ,Kansas City ,Missouri

Simply the Best. Love to the family, Carrie

Roger & Lisa Dillon Dec 10, 2020

Cousin ,Kansas City ,Kansas

Our sincere condolences to your family. Jerry will be greatly missed. He always had a smile on his face and was willing to help anyone in need. Praying for your family that God will comfort you during this difficult time.

Sheri L Mills Dec 10, 2020

Friend ,Tonganoxie ,Kansas

Our lives have been blest to have Jerry as a friend. He always welcomed us with his Bright Smile. We appreciate had he helped us when we lived in Edwardsville with the driveway. Visiting with Jerry we always left feeling better about the world and ourselves. He will be missed. We will always treasure his loving kind spirit. It was special to walk up the stairs at Grinter Chapel and see Jerry smiling ready to welcome you. Our Love and Prayers are with Sandy, Alan, Amy and family Today and Always

Bill and Marty Dec 10, 2020

Extended family ,Lee's Summit ,Missouri

Gerry was such a wonderful man. I cannot imagine a family gathering without his cheerful greeting and warm smile. We will miss him terribly. Our most sincere sympathies to Sandy, Alan, Amy and their families.

Mr. & Mrs Ron & Barb Grey Jr. Dec 10, 2020

Nephew ,Leavenworth ,Kansas

Aunt Sandy Grey , Allen and Amy and your families have our deepest condolences. We loved uncle Jerry and will miss him terribly. Jerry has always been a major part of our lives. We are so saddened by his passing. As we know you all are as well. So very sorry , you are all in our prayers. Love, Ron and Barb

Janet Ruby Dec 10, 2020

Acquaintance ,Kc ,Kansas

I’m so sorry for your loss. I didn’t know Jerry well just through Grinter neighborhood meetings but I have heard about him for 40 years from Laura Daniels when I first moved here, my husband Jerry Ruby, Jerry Kesner another builder here who I know well and I’ve just heard his name mentioned over the years so many times. Just wanted to say I’m sorry to hear of his passing. Janet Ruby

Ray & Suzanne Bond Dec 11, 2020

Friend and Customer ,Basehor ,Kansas

Our sincerest condolences to Jerry’s family. Jerry worked on our house when we built it in 2001. He was a swell guy and was a joy to work with. May he Rest In Peace.

Dorothylee Vaccaro Hans Dec 11, 2020

Friend of Sandy's from Turner High ,Kansas City, KS ,Kansas

My thoughts and prayers go out to you. Dorothylee Vaccaro Hans

John Keech Dec 11, 2020

Friend from working days ,Kansas City ,Missouri

Sandy and family: Jerry was wonderful to work with and such a cheerful, delightful person. I am so sorry for your loss. John

Dorothy Hans Dec 11, 2020

School friend of Sandy's ,Kansas City ,Kansas

Sandy and Family, I found this and send this when a loved one dies. I think it is so meaninful: At the rising sun and at its going down; I will remember him. At the opening of the buds and in the rebirth of spring; I will remember him. At the blueness of the skies and in the warmth of summer; I will remember him. At the rustling of the leaves and in the beauty of the autumn; I will remember him. At the beginning of the year and when it ends; I will remember him. As long as I live, he too will live, for he is now a part of me as, I remember him. When I am weary and in need of strength; I will remember him. When I am lost and sick at heart; I will remember him. When I have decisions that are difficult to make; I will remember him When I have joy I crave to share; I will remember him. When I have achievements that are based on him; I will remember him. For as long as I live, he too will live, for he is now a part of me as, I remember him.

Virgie McKim Dec 11, 2020

friend ,Edwardsville ,Kansas

So sorry to hear of Jerry's passing. Jerry was a very thoughtful and wonderful person. James and I send you our thoughts and prayers.

Kevin M. Steele Dec 11, 2020

Friend ,Kansas City ,Kansas

Condolences to the Family. Such a good person with a kind and caring heart. A pillar of the Community. I will miss him, and he will be missed by many in the Community. His smile and humor were comforting to me, and many others on many occasions. He always sought to help others and to work through issues for the betterment of all. Heaven has gained an angel. May he rest in peace.

Martin Petrey Dec 11, 2020

Student , Employee ,Kearney ,Missouri

Rarely in the course of Our Lives do we meet friends who we hold on to, when you met Jerry you knew you had a friend for life. No one ever inspired me as much as he did, so much that I tried my hardest to beat him to work everyday, to have the fire ready so we can sit down, have coffee and conversation about life and its meaning. I miss those times. God bless this family for its unfathomable contribution and loss.

Phyllis McClain Dec 11, 2020

Friend ,OVERLAND PARK ,Kansas

Sandy, I was so sorry to hear about your loss. You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers. Phyllis Riley McClain

Ron Edwards Dec 11, 2020

Friend ,Merriam ,Kansas

Sandy and family, I am so sorry for your loss. He will be deeply missed. Ron Edwards

Warren Kennedy Dec 11, 2020

Sandy, Alan and Amy-So sorry to learn of Jerry’s passing. He was always such a fun guy to be around, and was such a strong leader at Grinter Chapel. Prayers and blessings to you and your families. Warren & Gisela Kennedy

Shirley Hinkle Dec 11, 2020

Mike Grey's mother ,Blue Springs ,Missouri

We send our deepest condolences and heartfelt prayers to the Grey family. Jerry was the sweetest to come help us take care of Michael when he was struggling with ALS. We will always love him for that. He was loved by many. May he rest in peace. Shirley Hinkle and family. 💕

Jan Way Dec 12, 2020

Friend ,Shawnee ,Kansas

Jerry was the man with the million dollar smile and friendly chuckle every time I met him over fifty some years. Hard hard working, enthusiastic, cheerful, honest, husband, father, grandparent, friend. The total totem of his character reaches to the sky unlimited. I never heard him say a bad thing about anyone nor anyone say a thing about him , except in admiration and praise. Among good people, he was most excellent. He loved his wife, Sandy and his kids and in a sense the whole world. My wife Linda and I were blessed to know him and be able to call him friend. We are better for it. In a way everyone he met is part of his legacy of a generous spirit. He was the man with the million dollar smile.

Carol Baier Dec 12, 2020

Friend ,Kansas City ,Kansas

Jerry was a very kind, and sweet man! It was great to meet him when I moved in with Amanda and Linda in 2012. He would come over to say hi and see how everything was going! Many hugs and many prayers for his family! I am so sorry for your loss! He will be missed! God Bless You all!

Tracy Ramey Dec 14, 2020

If they have pick up trucks in heaven them I’m sure my father, Jim Ramey, rounded his dog, Lady, and picked up jewelry for tour of heaven. Dad and Jerry were competing coaches in Wyandotte County Girls Basketball Association and Dad said back then that if he ever had a house built it would be Jerry that built it because he did good work and was an honest man. When he had his house built, years later, that’s who he called. I think Dad was sad that the house was finished, in a way, because I know he missed spending his days hanging out with and running around with Jerry. I’d see Jerry fairly often over the years at Grinter. I’m a past president of the friends group and attend events sporadically. He took good care of things there and really cared. Jerry was a good man. Of that there is no doubt. Enjoy heaven Jerry. I know you will be among friends.

Thomas Prater Dec 16, 2020

Friend ,Leawood ,Kansas

Jerry was a friend since the late 50’s. He was a fine man. My sincere condolences to his wife Sandy and to everyone who loved him and will miss him. Tom & Barbara Prater

Frank Nov 04, 2023

Neighbor ,Shawnee ,Kansas

Gerry was a real gentleman, I will always remember his kindness and generosity. I will truly miss him. Sandra, our deepest sympathy. Love Catherine and Frank your Neighbors

Services

Event:
Funeral Service
Location:
Porter Funeral Home
Address:
8535 Monrovia St
City:
Lenexa
State:
Kansas
Zip Code:
66215
Date:
Dec 11, 2020
Time:
10:30 AM
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