Nov 06, 1942---Mar 21, 2023

Dennis passed peacefully into the arms of God on March 21, 2023. The Rosary will be prayed at 9:30 a.m. with the Visitation following until the Memorial Mass at 10:30 a.m. on Friday, March 31, at Cure of Ars Catholic Church, 9405 Mission Rd. Leawood, KS. Inurnment will be held at 1:30 p.m. at Mt. Olivet Cemetery, Raytown, MO.

Denny was born to Thomas and Rose O’Connor November 6, 1942, in Kansas City, MO.Denny’s love for the Lord began in grade school, where he was an alter server at Christ the King. He enjoyed much of his childhood years visiting cousins on the farm in Nebraska. Denny met Wilma Carpenter, who became his bride of sixty years, prior to graduating from Hogan High School. They raised their two children and adopted grandson in the Kansas City area. He so loved being involved with supporting his children’s school activities by volunteering countless hours at Notre Dame de Sion, Cure of Ars, sporting events and Cub Scouts. Much of the family time was spent at Lake of the Ozarks, where Denny and Wilma always had an open door to all. His love and support of family will always be cherished. He had a long career of thirty years in the trucking industry. Denny’s strong devotion to God taught him strength and commitment to the Catholic church throughout his life. His big heart and spirit of giving, as well as his willingness to help others, and keen sense of humor could be felt by all who had the privilege of knowing him. He was a great friend to many. He had a gentle smile and love that will never be forgotten, and will be carried on by those whom he touched. Denny was preceded in death by his parents Thomas and Rose O’Connor, sister Mary Katherine O’Connor, son John O’Connor and wife Wilma O’Connor. Denny is survived by his daughter Stacey and husband Larry of Tulsa, OK, Johnathan O’Connor of Prairie Village, KS, granddaughters Jessica O’Connor of Overland Park, KS, Shannon O’Connor of Olathe, KS, grandsons Connor Thetford of Dallas, TX, Cameron Thetford of Sacramento, CA, and six great grandchildren.

 



Condolences

Larry Thetford Mar 24, 2023

Your daughter, son-in-law and our two boys will be forever grateful for the love, kindness and support you showered us with in so many ways and for so many years, in such a selfless way. You had such a powerful influence on all our lives and will be missed.

Jessica O’Connor Mar 24, 2023

Granddaughter ,Overland Park ,Kansas

Grandpa, thank you for all the fun summers we had and the talks, bonfires and teaching me how to change spark plugs on the wave runners. Thank you for teaching me how to drive and dock a boat and for all of the life lessons along the way! I will miss our talks and rants about politics. Your hilarious sense of humor and great cooking! I love you grandpa and I miss you already. I love you- Jess

Mark spence Mar 25, 2023

friend ,KANSAS CITY ,Missouri

Denny was one of my very best lifelong friends. I met him when I was 17, and 41 years later i still enjoyed his contagious and hearfelt grin. Denny was someone i could confide in, when family just was not the right ear to listen. His advice was never too involved, just bottom line, "think about this", or "what the hell is wrong with you boy. why did you do that ?" There were a LOT of those. He wasn't shy about telling you what you "should do" and it was always appreciated. Denny and Willie trusted a lot of us, at age 18-22, to have a great but safe time with them at Lake of the Ozarks. They were beyond generous in making sure we had fun. (at times perhaps a bit too trusting !) I so enjoyed visiting Denny on Sundays to watch football with him and give him trouble about becoming a cranky old man. He would admit to it, and then give his grin. He adored his family,especially Stacy. He was a wonderful father and grandfather. I am not very good at good byes, and saying goodbye to Denny is an especaily hard one. He was my cherished freind and confidant. He role modeled what a friend, father and grandfatehr should be, and i will always be grateful for that. I feel bad that i never gave him back his Eddie Rabbitt cassette tape from 1989 !! Love you and missyou already

Kim Robertson Apr 19, 2023

friend ,Overland Park ,Kansas

I wanted to reach out and say how sad I am to hear of Denny's passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to him and his family.

Kim Robertson Apr 19, 2023

friend ,Overland Park ,Kansas

I wanted to reach out and say how sad I am to hear of Denny's passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to him and his family. God Bless, Kim Robertson

Services

Event:
Rosary
Location:
Cure of Ars Catholic Church
Address:
9405 Mission Road
City:
Leawood
State:
Kansas
Zip Code:
66206
Date:
Mar 31, 2023
Time:
9:30 AM
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Event:
Memorial Mass
Location:
Cure of Ars Catholic Church
Address:
9405 Mission Road
City:
Leawood
State:
Kansas
Zip Code:
66206
Date:
Mar 31, 2023
Time:
10:30 AM
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