Dec 05, 1943---May 20, 2025

Reta Faye Barlow Vaughn, 81, passed away peacefully on May 20, 2025. The funeral will be held Friday, May 23rd at 10:30 am, at Porter Funeral Home 8535 Monrovia, Lenexa, KS. Burial following in the Woodland Cemetery in Richmond, MO.

Born on December 5, 1943 in Carthage, Missouri, to Luther "Rex" and Alta Barlow, she was raised with an appreciation for family.   After graduation from William Chrisman High School in Independence, Missouri she worked for Aetna and retired in 1996.

Reta enjoyed keeping busy by gardening, spending time with her grandkids, vacationing with her husband, and always making time for her lifelong friends.

She is survived by her beloved husband of 42 years, Dwain Vaughn, son Jeff Handley (Vicky), daughter Jill Handley and stepson Mark Vaughn (Cindy), sister Lawanna Wills and nephew David Wills. Reta was a proud grandma to Mitchell Handley (Amy), Savanna Handley, Alison Vaughn Smith (Tyler), Cierra Handley (Mikey Roberts), Christopher Vaughn (Hailey) and Jesse Handley. She was blessed to have eight great grandchildren and two loving nieces.

Reta's family suggests memorial contributions be made to AHC Home Health and Hospice of Kansas City https://homehealthandhospice.com/.

Condolences may be expressed at: www.porterfuneralhome.com  Arrangements: Porter Funeral Homes & Crematory, 8535 Monrovia, Lenexa, KS 913.438.6444

 



Condolences

Nancy Meuten May 22, 2025

friend and former neighbor ,Olathe ,Kansas

Reta will be remembered with much fondness. She was so special in many ways. We both loved to garden, and shared plant stories, and unusual plants. We will be together, with our good Lord. Sorry for the family's loss. She is at peace. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Hugs, Nancy

Joyce and Frank Montanari May 22, 2025

Cousin in Law ,Morrison ,Colorado

We are so sorry for your loss, and know in our hearts that Reta is in a better place. Love all of you!

Donna Budd May 22, 2025

Co-worker ,Kansas City ,Missouri

I am so sorry to hear of Reta's passing. We worked together at Aetna.

Robert Tims May 22, 2025

Former coworker ,Overland Park ,Kansas

So sorry to hear of Reta’s passing. We worked together for many years at Aetna. She was always helpful, supportive and conscientious. It was a pleasure to work with her.

Randy Harvey May 23, 2025

Co Worker ,Pensacola ,Florida

We are so sorry to hear of Reta's passing. What a wonderful soul. She would either call or send a card or both on my birthday and I have not worked at Aetna since 1996, and we spoke this year along with Dwain. She will be missed. Love and prayers to Dwain and family. Love, Randy & Kelly Harvey

Services

Event:
Funeral Service
Location:
Porter Funeral Home
Address:
8535 Monrovia
City:
Lenexa
State:
Kansas
Zip Code:
66215
Date:
May 23, 2025
Time:
10:30 AM
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