Dec 05, 1957---Feb 21, 2026

Monet Luree Kietzman of Lenexa passed away on Saturday, February 21, 2026 at her home. She was 68 years old. 

Monet was born on December 5, 1957 in Sapulpa, Oklahoma to Albert and Nancy Bellinger (Black). She attended Kansas State University where she earned her bachelor’s degree in social work in 1980. She spent most of her career as an underwriter and retired from Sunlife Financial in 2025.

She was the proud mother of two sons that she loved unconditionally. From ear aches to baseball practice and snuggles to scouts, Monet showed up for her sons no matter what. They took many family road trips, and she supported them in pursuing their multiple individual interests. When those sons grew up and got married, she embraced her daughters-in-law with equal devotion. 

Monet was an avid genealogist and a leader in multiple historical groups. She loved to read and learn and enjoy a good TV series - even more so if those activities were historically based. A rebel at heart, she loved rock music and concerts. She also enjoyed traveling, giving presents, and a fountain Diet Coke. Monet was a devoted Catholic who spent her last few years with St. Joseph parish. She demonstrated her commitment to her faith through Bible and catechism studies, midnight adoration slots, and attending All School Mass with her grandchildren. In her retirement, she was looking forward to being able to increase this involvement.

Monet truly came into her own when she became a grandmother. Her life centered around her grandchildren, Ezri and Louis, who called her Gigi. She took them to school and activities, hosted many a sleepover, and spoiled with the best of them. Monet’s family was the most important thing to her, and she would do anything for them. They are all incredibly fortunate to be recipients of such love and dedication.

Monet is survived by her sons Ian (Brianna) Kietzman of Kansas City and Dane (Frankie) Kietzman of Shawnee, their father, Randy Kietzman, and her grandchildren. She is preceded in death by her parents, her brother Steve Bellinger and her lifelong friend, Cindy Trupka. 

The visitation will be Monday, March 2 from 10-11am followed by Funeral Mass at 11am at St. Joseph Catholic Church, 11311 Johnson Drive, Shawnee, KS. Memorial contributions in Monet's name are welcome to the St. Joseph Generations Campaign or the Gift of Adoption Fund

 



Condolences

Eve Davenport Holder Feb 22, 2026

UDC DAUGHTER ,Gallatin ,Tennessee

The GA Division UDC is very sad to hear of your passing. We will keep your family and friends in our prayers. Eve Davenport Holder Chaplain GA Division UDC

Linda Curtiss Feb 22, 2026

friend ,Auburn ,Kansas

Monet, "Gone from our sight, but never from our hearts."

Richard McPherson Feb 22, 2026

Friend ,Leawood ,Kansas

Monet has been a special friend to me and to those in my Southern Heritage group for many years. Her spirit and enthusiasm was so uplifting and made it a joy to have her join with us. We thought of her as a sister and in return we were her brothers. We are saddened to learn of her passing and she will be missed. Our condolences to her boys and to her grandchildren who she loved so much.

Stella Lee Feb 22, 2026

Friend ,Las Vegas ,Nevada

Ms. Monet, You are so loved and cherished. I am very disheartened to hear of your passing. I am praying for your friends and family at this difficult time. Our chapter won't feel the same without you in it. Your enthusiasm for history and our shared heritage helped make meetings so special. We love you ❤️ Stella Lee

Jodi Izzo Feb 22, 2026

Friend ,Las Vegas ,Nevada

I am at such a loss, you were such an incredible friend, Monet. You always showed up and made yourself available for those you loved. I know how much retirement meant to you to spend more time with your kids and grandkids, I am heartbroken for all of them as well. You loved out loud, and had passion in everything you did. You will be forever loved and missed. 💔🙏

Stella Lee Feb 22, 2026

Friend ,Las Vegas ,Nevada

Ms. Monet, You are so deeply loved and missed. I am sending prayers of comfort and healing for your family at this difficult time. ❤️ Stella Lee

Renee Sullivan Feb 22, 2026

Friend ,Macon ,Georgia

To Monet's family, I am so shocked to hear about Monet's passing. I connected with her at a UDC General Convention and then found out she knew one of my cousins who lives in KS. We bonded over that and it was always a pleasure to see her at conventions. Prayers for all you!!! She will be so missed!! Renee Sullivan, Ph.D. Sidney Lanier 25 UDC Macon, GA

Crystal Stallings Jump Feb 22, 2026

friend ,Macon ,Georgia

I am so sorry to hear of this! Just as life was starting Monet! Rest easy friend!

Charlotte Clinger Feb 22, 2026

Friend ,Fairfax ,Virginia

My deepest sympathy goes out to Monet’s family. She was such a joy to be around, especially at UDC Conventions, always fun and gracious.

Tracey Smith Feb 23, 2026

Work Friend ,Raymore ,Missouri

Monet, I can't believe this. You just retired to be able to enjoy the grandbabies and your sons and their wives. I am in shock and saddened. Thoughts and Prayers to your family and friends. You will be so missed. Tracey Smith

Diane DeWitt Feb 23, 2026

Former Co-Worker ,Independence ,Missouri

I have worked with Monet for many years at MBL/Assurant/SunLife. We worked together for many years and became friends and were planning to get together for lunch end of March after my vacation. She will be missed, always enjoyed visiting with her in and out of the office. I know how much she loved her sons and daughter in laws and those grandkids. She was very proud grandmother. Diane

Sandra A Bryson Feb 23, 2026

Friend ,Turney ,Missouri

I wish I had the right words. I am holding you all close in my thoughts and in my prayers as you navigate this painful time. Your mom’s presence will always be felt, and her love will continue to surround every one of you. She loved you all so dearly. Monet carried such a strong, vibrant zest for life, and her laugh was truly contagious. I will deeply miss my dear friend. Please know and trust our Lord is near to the brokenhearted and will carry you through the days ahead.

Kim Oliver Feb 23, 2026

work colleague ,Raymore ,Missouri

My deepest sympathies to Monet's family. She was so excited to retire and spend so much more time with her boys and grandkids. My thoughts are with you all and prayers for strength as you go through this hardship. She was a terrific and blessed woman.

Kathy Harrell Feb 23, 2026

work friend ,Blue Springs ,Missouri

I am at such a loss, you were such a kind person and good friend, Monet. During our many conversations at work planning your retirement celebration you expressed how you were looking forward to spending more time with your family. It was so obvious how much you loved being a grandmother. I am so sorry you were taken from us so early. I am heartbroken for all your family. You will be forever missed.

Sandi Blood Feb 23, 2026

Friend ,Murrells Inlet ,South Carolina

I was so shocked to read this news. I had communicated with Monet just a couple of months ago and we were planning to get together in South Carolina this spring. So sad that she did not have the chance to fully embrace retirement and spend more time with her family. Sending lots of love and strength to her family.

Jinny Widowski Feb 23, 2026

Friend ,Brunswick ,Ohio

Monet will definitely be missed. She was a shining star in the UDC and gone too soon. Prayers of peace and comfort!

Sara Powell Feb 23, 2026

Friend ,Wake Forest ,North Carolina

Monet had a wit about her that made everyone chuckle! Her smile and sense of humor will be missed. Prayers for her family. Rest easy, friend!

Richard Rincon Feb 23, 2026

Friend of Ian ,Shawnee ,Kansas

I'm am so sorry for your loss. The family are in my thoughts.

Alexis Russo Feb 23, 2026

Friend ,Langhorne ,Pennsylvania

Dear Ian, Dane, Brianna, Frankie, Ezri, and Louis, I wanted to share how deeply Monet meant to me, and how profoundly she touched the lives of everyone blessed enough to call her a friend. I always admired her unwavering devotion to her faith, her friendships, and above all, her family. You were truly the center of her world. She spoke about each of you with such pride, love, and joy — whether it was the boys she raised with all her heart, the daughters‑in‑law she embraced as her own, or the grandchildren who lit up her days and filled her with purpose. Being “Gigi” was one of the greatest joys of her life. Monet lived with a beautiful blend of strength, humor, curiosity, and compassion. She was passionate, thoughtful, and wonderfully herself — whether she was diving into genealogy, enjoying her music ( Poison was her favorite), or simply being present for the people she loved. Her friendship was something I cherished deeply, and her faith was something she lived, not just believed. Her spirit, love, and light live on in each of you. I hope you find comfort in the incredible legacy she leaves — one built from devotion, generosity, and a kind of love that never fades. Please know I am holding all of you in my heart during this time. With love and deepest sympathy, Lexi

Sallie de Barcza Feb 23, 2026

Close friend ,Vero Beach ,Florida

Monet held a special place in the hearts of her UDC friends. She will be sorely & forever missed. My prayers for her children & grandchildren whom she loved without measure. May she RIP & reap her reward.

Michael Bair ( Bellinger) Jenny Bair Feb 24, 2026

Cousin ,Dade City, Fl ,Florida

Monet was an incredible person, she always had a positive attitude despite having a very rough childhood and early adult life. She was a great friend to her aunt Margaret and one of the hardest workers I have ever known. For years she worked two and three jobs a day to provide for her boys and get them through college. Truly an amazing and inspiring woman.

SUSAN MCCROBIE Feb 24, 2026

UDC KY DIVISION ,ELIZABETHTOWN ,Kentucky

Monet will always hold a special place in the hearts of her UDC friends and this Kentucky Daughter. She was more enchanted than those Flying Monkeys our Kansas Daughter, traveling to conventions from her own Oz, would include, with a glowing grin, while speaking. That smile and quick wit will be sorely missed in future gatherings. Prayers offered for her Eternal rest and may a perpetual light of love shine upon them and spill over to cover those she loved through the mercy of our Lord and Savior.

Pam Mauldin Feb 24, 2026

Friend ,Walnut ,Mississippi

Deepest condolences to Monets family. She was so loved by her UDC sisters. We will miss her fun and laughter at Conventions. Rest in peace girlie.

Susan Neer Feb 24, 2026

co-worker ,Lee's Summit ,Missouri

I'm deeply saddened to hear about Monet's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with her family and loved ones.

Gayla Hoyt Feb 24, 2026

organization memberships ,Topeka ,Kansas

Monet belonged to Daughters of 1812 and Margaret Dunning Chapter Daughters of the American Colonists for many years together with us. We always enjoyed talking with her about the organizations, family history, jobs,, families, whatever. She was a delight to work with on various projects and often her creative skills freely. She will be missed.

Brenda Hall McDonald Feb 24, 2026

Monet was always so much fun to work with, and I especially enjoyed past division president's dinners with her. My sincere condolences to her family from her friend in Tennessee. May you cherish the wonderful memories and they bring you comfort in the coming days.

Rebecca Wester Feb 24, 2026

Friend in United Daughters of the Confederacy ,Choctaw ,Oklahoma

It was my joy to visit with Monet many times at General Conventions of our Organization. She was sweet, friendly and very knowledgeable. She will be very missed.

Natalie Burger Feb 25, 2026

former co-worker ,Platte City ,Missouri

Sending condolences to the family. As a former colleague, I enjoyed hearing Monet's contagious bursts of laughter echo through the department.

Michael s Maniquis Feb 25, 2026

Friend ,Shawnee ,Kansas

I’m so sorry to hear the news. We will miss her greatly here at nail perfection. She would always come in with her wonderful smile and sense of humor. I always looked forward to see her and talk about funny things she and I would come across. She will forever be part of our family here.

Shirley Woodlock Feb 25, 2026

Friend ,Lorena ,Texas

Our loss is Heaven’s gain but it sure did leave a hole in the heart of every UDC member who ever knew Monet.

Kevin Smith Feb 26, 2026

Co-worker ,Lee's Summit ,Missouri

Condolences to the family and friends (which were many) of Monet, as we are all dealing with the sadness of her passing. As long as I have known her, Monet always had a smile, a terrific laugh, or a funny story to share. She had a great view of the world. It always made my day to see her and chat for while. She was so excited about the next steps after retirement. Prayers to her kids, grandkids, and other family members.

Beth Wilkinson Feb 26, 2026

Friend ,Covington ,Kentucky

I worked with Mort for many years when we’re at Assurant (now SunLife). We talk on the phone a lot since we were in different states. I can remember talking to her when the first plan hit the tower in NY and telling her I would have to call back. I followed her on Facebook when I left Assurant and was so happy when she retired and could spend time with her grandkids. Sending hugs and prayers to the family during this hard time. Beth

Christina Hurst-Loeffler Feb 26, 2026

UDC California Division, Emma Sansom 449 Chapter ,Rancho Santa Margarita ,California

I adored Monet with her fun, vibrant personality! I will truly miss her friendship deeply.

Sherry Watkins Mar 01, 2026

Ian, Dane & family I was so sorry to hear about the passing of your Mom. Hoping that the memories of her will give you peace and comfort in the years to come

B Nadine Arney Mar 01, 2026

Friend ,Glendale ,Arizona

Your memory will always be a Blessing to me. What great times we had. Peace and comfort to Ian, Dane, Brianna, Frankie and the precious grandchildren of their Gigi. Conventions and Board meetings, road trips and late night chats won't ever be the same. I miss you already and rest in the knowledge that I will see you again someday when I come to meet Jesus. We had plans, girlfriend, but God had other plans.

Services

Event:
Visitation
Location:
St. Joseph Catholic Church
Address:
11311 Johnson Drive
City:
Shawnee
State:
Kansas
Zip Code:
66203
Date:
Mar 02, 2026
Time:
10:00 AM
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Event:
Funeral Mass
Location:
St. Joseph Catholic Church
Address:
11311 Johnson Drive
City:
Shawnee
State:
Kansas
Zip Code:
66203
Date:
Mar 02, 2026
Time:
11:00 AM
Google Map: