May 04, 1945---Oct 02, 2026

Roger William Rhoades, 81, of Overland Park, Kansas, died Friday, October 2, 2026 at the University of Kansas Hospital.  Visitation will be from 4-6:00 PM, with a Rosary prayed at 4:30 PM, Thursday, October 8, 2026 at Porter Funeral Home, 8535 Monrovia St., Lenexa, KS.  Funeral Mass will be 10:00 AM Friday, October 9, at the Old St. Patrick Oratory, 806 Cherry St. Kansas City,  MO 64106.  Burial in Resurrection Cemetery, Lenexa, KS.  In lieu of flowers the family suggests memorial to the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation, Rheumatoid Arthritis Foundation, American Transplant Foundation or the Heart Failure Foundation.

     Roger was born May 4, 1945, in St. Joseph, MO to Edgar and Laura (Parrish) Rhoades.  Roger married Nancy Jean Swann in 1970.  He retired as Project Manager from Farmland Inc. after 34 years.  The favorite part of his life was traveling, spending time with his children and grandchildren. He so loved his winters at the beach.  Roger wrote a book "Santiago de Compostela" a journal of our camino.

Roger was preceded in death by his parents, his brother Larry Rhoades and his sister Bev Stephens.  He is survived by his wife of 56 years, Nancy Jean Rhoades, two children John and his wife Michelle Rhoades, Janel and her husband Matthew O'Donnell, grandchildren Isabella, Will Hugh, Gus, Rory, Henry, and Francine O'Donnell.  Roger will be greatly missed by his family and friends.



Condolences

Patrick Kraus Oct 06, 2026

Family Friend ,Lenexa ,Kansas

Roger was a great second dad for me. So many memories of him growing up. Endless Fourth of July events or watching boxing on pay per view throughout the 80s and 90s. To supporting me with wisdom during tough times as an adult. Thank you for every moment. I hope that I am able to live up to the standards you set as a family man. Love Patrick

Len Kraus Oct 06, 2026

Friend and admirer of Roger ,OAKVILLE ,Missouri

Nancy and all, I send my condolences and prayers to you as I give thanks for Roger's life and join you in entrusting him to eternal life and the joy of God's presence. I am so sorry that I cannot be with you this weekend, and I just want to send my love and prayers--and gratitude for all of you. Blessings, Len

Sam Voyles Oct 06, 2026

Friend ,Kansas City ,Kansas

Sending all my love, prayers, and deepest condolences to Matt, Janel, and the entire family. I am thinking of you all and holding your family close to my heart during this difficult time.

Karen Kraus Oct 07, 2026

Friend ,LOS ANGELES ,California

Sending heartfelt condolences to the entire Rhoades Family. We love Roger so much and are so grateful for a lifetime of fun, fellowship, friendship and love. I think of Roger every time I see mini chocolate donuts in the fridge!! Love you all so much and sending love and hugs your way. xoxo Karen Kraus

Shirley Morefield Oct 11, 2026

former neighbor ,Leawood ,Kansas

Just learned of Roger's passing. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.Always enjoyed our back yard chats and miss Wycliff. Jim passed 8/25.